Reunion Lunch

Instead of having reunion dinner, my family had reunion lunch instead. Never fail to have more than two bowls of rice every year! I hate Chinese New Year cause I tend to eat a lot and this is the period I tend to gain the most weight. But I love Chinese New Year cause I get to watch many nice shows! Took some pictures during our reunion lunch!

Had an awesome lunch! Epic shot of mummy and daddy! Love them so much! Shall post more photos this CNY! Stay tuned people!

Toodles ~

Random

So after a year of not doing anything to my hair, I decided to reborn it again cause I've got natural curls and it's really getting on my nerves. I had to sit at the salon for freaking 4 hours just to get my hair done (rebond + treatment + trim). My sis went along with me to have her hair done too. Boyfriend came to find us after that and I brought him to see my Godma. My godma is like my mother to me. She really dotes on me and loves me a lot. Boyfriend was so nervous at first but managed to calm himself down after chatting with her. Glad he felt comfortable :) Had dinner with baby and went back to his place.

We had a slight quarrel. I don't know why the fuck I started to mention about the past which caused him to recall about many stuff. I didn't felt good at that point of time seeing him like that. All that ran through my mind was hatred, hatred for myself. Till today, I still can't forgive myself. Not now, not next time.

Baby, if you're reading this, please know that you're the best boyfriend one can ever have. You made me feel special, you made me feel wanted. You made me feel loved, you made me realize what's the meaning of happiness. Without you, there would be nothing. Thanks for making me feel so special and loved all the time. Thanks for treating me like a princess. Baby, always remember, you're the one that I need, you're the one that I want. Just you would be enough. I'll never ever let history repeat ever again. I'll treasure every single moment spent with you. I'll cherish whatever I have now. I'll love you with everything I have and prove to you that you're worth everything I've done. Baby, always bear this in mind : "You mean the universe to me, I'll never leave you again, so baby, please don't leave me." I love you hub ♥ 

♥ ♥ ♥ 

MEOW

How to ensure that you chose the right man?

Today I'm going to share with you girls out there how to gauge if you have chosen the right man as your partner. This is going to be based on my personal experience. From my point of view, I feel that every guy is different. Some might be extremely good to you whereas some might be extremely mean towards you. Want to know if you have chosen the right man? Here are some tips!

1. If he loves you wholeheartedly, no matter what happens, he will never leave you and he will never ever want you to leave him too. No matter what happens, he will hold on to this relationship because you mean too much to him and he never wants to let you go. If you have ever suggested to break up with a guy, and he never tries to get you back, then seriously, don't bother anymore.
2. If he puts down his ego for you, then he is the right one for you. No man I know has ever put down their ego, not even for their girlfriends. Ego means to much to a man. So if he ever puts down his ego for you, girl, he is the one.
3. If he puts you as top priority, treasure this man. Guys normally puts their friends as top priority as friends are those who went through thick and thin with them. But if he puts you as first priority, this proves that his love for you is true. Treasure him.
4. If he tears for you, it shows that you mean more than anything to him. Guys have very high ego thus crying has never been in their dictionary. There is a Chinese saying " Men bleed but will never tear". This is not true. Men are humans too and they do have feelings. If they ever cry for you, this shows that he is true to you. 
5. If he is there for you when you are happy or sad, this shows that he wants to share your happiness and your sorrows with you. He wants to be the one who can be there to listen to your troubles and the one who can be there to lend you a shoulder when you need someone to lean on.

So girls, if your boyfriend meets all of the requirements of a good man, treasure him. Cause good men have all extinct. I'm glad I've met the right man. My boyfriend meets all of the requirements above and I feel really blessed :) 

Baby, if you're reading this, please know that you're one of a kind, someone hard to find. I'll treasure and cherish you baby. You mean so much to me I never want to lose you ever again. No matter what happens now or in future, quarrels, unhappiness, I believe we can overcome it together. You and I, we can definitely make this happen. I love you baby, I really do ♥

How to maintain your relationship II ?

This post would be a continuation of my previous post.

Here are the steps:

1. Respect. Respect is the most important point among all the steps. Before respecting your partner, firstly you have to learn how to respect others eg. Your family, your friends. Respect others just like how you want others to respect you. If you do not know how to respect your partner, then you both should not even be together in the first place cause you'll just end up quarreling every single day of your life.
2. Treat them right. Treat your partner like how you want your partner to treat you. Never ever treat your partner the same as how you treat your friends. You might be nice and all to your friends but yes, treat your partner even better. It's not really about bros over hoes kind of logic. Friends are important but I believe your partner is more important than anyone else.
3. Never take for granted. Never ever take your partner for granted. If your partner is really nice to you, that is cause he or she loves you and wants the best for you. Learn to appreciate the little things that they do for you. Never make use of their love to gain anything from it cause you'll end up breaking their heart instead.
4. Right attitude. You might be troubled or pissed about something but that does not mean you have to rights to show attitude to your partners. If they ask you what happened and all, tell them your troubles. Your partners are the ones whom can you can share your problems with sometimes. And they willingly give you a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on. Appreciate their initiative. I personally am facing problems with showing the right attitude to my boyfriend too and I'm trying my best to change now. 
5. Display your love. What I mean by displaying your love is not only when both of you are alone but when your friends are around you. Your partner will definitely feel good and loved if you go around telling your friends about him or her. Share your happiness with your friends cause your close friends would definitely be happy for you. Never ever release your partner's hand when you see your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend. This will only tell your partner that you have yet to forget about the past. Love your partner like how they love you. 

So couples out there, treasure your loved ones before they decide to leave you. Sometimes, things which are gone will never come back to you. Cherish them now before it's too late. Love like you never loved before. Don't live in a life of regret. Do what you should now to improve your relationship with your partner before it's too late. If you're reading this, tell your partner how much they mean to you and how much you need them in your life. A healthy relationship is what everyone is looking for so hold on there cause behind every cloud is a silver lining. All the best to you couples! xoxo

How to maintain your relationship?

Have you ever wondered why quarrels often happen in your relationship? Have you ever wondered why couples get together and end up getting a divorce? Do you want to know how to maintain your relationship with your love ones? There are actually a few steps in achieving this goal of yours.

Here are the steps :

1. Trust your partner in whatever he or she does. For example, if he or she wants to head out with a person in an opposite sex, don't stop them. I understand that there will be jealousy but if you stop them, the more the other party would tend to have negative thoughts about you. Unless your partner is someone who likes you to be jealous (which also shows that you care). For my case, I get jealous easy and vice versa so both my boyfriend and I would know how to handle this situation.
2. Give and take. Sometimes you want things to go your way, but that doesn't mean you have to bring that into your relationship. In a relationship, it takes two hands to clap. You can't expect one party to be the one giving and taking all the time. For example, during a quarrel, you can't expect one party to be the one giving in all the time. You have to make an effort to make things right too. I mean like if it's your fault, then don't push the blame to the other party. Just admit your mistake cause in a relationship, there is no right or wrong.
3. Forgive and forget. No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. You can't expect your partner to be 101% perfect. No matter what he or she does, I believe they deserve a chance to prove themselves. If you have given them too many chances and they do not treasure it, then that's another story. So coming back to the main topic, always try to forgive your partner if you really love them. Forget. I admit, it's really hard for someone to forget something you have done to hurt them, or whatsoever. Maybe I shouldn't comment on this cause I'm facing problems related to this so yeah.
4. Appreciate. Always learn to appreciate your partner. It might be something small or whatsoever, but that shows that they still bother. 
5. Treasure and cherish. Treasure and cherish your partner when you both are together or else you'll end up regretting just like how I did a year ago. Sometimes, it's just too late to regret about what you didn't do in the past to keep him or her by your side. No point crying over spilled milk once you missed your chance. Problems between the two of you can be fixed but once you lose him or her, there won't be any chance to mend this relationship.

These are the five steps of how to maintain your relationship. There are more steps but I guess I'll continue some other day. 

AND ALSO

If you people have read Pxdkitty's blog, you'll know who is this local novelist "Low Kay Hwa".

His books are really inspiring and touching. I've got three of his books in my collection :

" I Believe You", "You Are Here" and "Destiny's Cries". In my opinion, I find that these three books are awesome. The storyline is really amazing.

Drop me a text or email if you want to read it! I'll be lending it to interested readers :)

Book preview : http://www.goodybooks.com/books_main.htm

"Love is blind"

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY ♥

From the blog title, you should be able to guess that this post would be dedicated to my dearest and most precious boyfriend. Today is the 18th and it also marks our first month together. From one of my post, I actually shared our story. All these while, this silly boy of mine never left me. No matter what happens in my life, he has always been there for me and he never gave up on me. Throughout that one year or so, there were many ups and downs in our lives. We found each other and left each other. One month seems too short for us. It feels like I've been with him for a life time already. I'm gonna cut the crap and start my dedication to him now.

To my dearest, most precious, my one and only, silly boy, endless love:

HAPPY ONE MONTH BABY BOY! It feels like we have been together for so damn long! Thanks for tolerating my nonsense all these while. Thanks for giving in to me when we quarrel. We all know that both of us have bad tempers, yet time and time again, you still swallowed it down and forgave me. Thanks for doing so much for me despite me breaking your heart all the time. I'm really sorry you had to go through so much shit cause of me. You're the best boyfriend I've ever had. Yes baby, you're the best I ever had. I want to keep you for myself so much and never let you go. I'm glad we could still be this strong after going through so much together. I'm really thankful that you never gave up on me all these while. Baby, I might be unreasonable and selfish at times but that doesn't mean that I don't love you. You mean the world to me baby. I'll do anything to prove to you that I'm willing to change for the better. I want to prove to you that I'm the one for you and you're the one for me too. Baby, once again, I would like to thank you for being so sweet to me all the time and also, thank you for giving me another chance to prove myself. I love you baby, so much indeed.

I want you to be the first person I see when I wake up and the last person I see before I sleep. Baby, I can't wait to live with you in future, prepare breakfast for you and waiting for you to come home after work. I want to be there to help you massage your shoulders everyday after giving your all at work. I want to be the one whom you want to see everyday for the rest of your life. Baby, you are like a gem to me, so real, so precious. Really want you to be happy when you're with me. I love you hun, now and forever.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOU BABY ♥

♥♥♥

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ASH IN CANS

Have been a loyal supporter of this blogshop. Firstly, the model is pretty and secondly, their apparels are really attractive. Their apparels are a mixture of simple, basic, formal, unique and easy to wear! Really love how the model brings out the apparels. 

Have been wondering for a long time. Is the model Eunice? The winner of VAUNT? And I think I saw her at town a few days back during the weekends. Confusing. 

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SO SHOP TILL YOU DROP GIRLS!

♥ ♥ ♥

Popin' Cookin

Popin Cookin has been rather popular throughout the world. I think it is originated from Japan or something. Everything is the packet itself is edible. I've yet to try it out though. After watching the video, you'll find it super cool, like how the noodles or sushi is formed. Everything is in powder form but it turns solid after stirring in and all. Found a blog selling the Popin cookin DIY candy kit, and they are selling it at a very cheap price at SGD$9 per packet! Other than that, they are also selling other cool stuff like the DIY Eraser making kit! It's slightly more expensive compared to the candy kit though. I'm gonna get a few sets of the candy kit to try it out myself!

Do visit http://lovemelancholy.livejournal.com/ to purchase these cute items! 

thpaperplane + Random

So Chinese New Year is around the corner! Have you girls bought your apparels yet? Last minute shopping but lazy to head out? It's your chance now cause thpaperplane is providing mass meet-up sessions for January only! Meetup will be available this Thursday! They have really pretty apparels and you girls should go check it out!

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I've totally got no mood for Chinese New Year this year and I don't know why. But I'm really glad baby will be around to celebrate it with me :) I really thank God for everything that is happening in my life now. Everything seems so perfect, so awesome. I've the most wonderful boyfriend anyone can ever have! I know I've been bragging about my boyfriend everyday but sorry, I just can't seem to help it! Pardon me!

Lots of love

Toodles ~

Love Today

Been stressing over what to blog about for today but I guess I should just blog about yesterday since I enjoyed myself so much! So I met up with my long lost buddy for a while in the afternoon yesterday. And guess what? Boyfriend was at Hougang too! Felt so happy to see him cause boy, I just can't get enough of you. Met up with the group of lovely people, like finally. Feeling kinda upset cause we didn't manage to take photos together :( Been a long time since I last saw them, and went out with them. I missed the times when we hung out together in the past. We headed to Bugis for a walk and we got stuff for ourselves :) But my main purpose was to get boyfriend something and guess what? I got boyfriend a shirt and yes, he likes it! I'm so happy that he likes it! Didn't take a photo of baby in the shirt but if you guys are curious, you can always view my blog after CNY to see it! Headed to Queenstown for dinner later with boyfriend and family and headed back to our home :)

Shall make some time to meet my friends soon! Miss them so much!

So if you guys are wondering why I always claim that I got a HOT boyfriend, now you know. You can't deny the fact that he is HOT. But too bad, he is mine already! ^^

Toodles ~