Thursday, January 19, 2012

How to maintain your relationship II ?

This post would be a continuation of my previous post.

Here are the steps:


  1. Respect. Respect is the most important point among all the steps. Before respecting your partner, firstly you have to learn how to respect others eg. Your family, your friends. Respect others just like how you want others to respect you. If you do not know how to respect your partner, then you both should not even be together in the first place cause you'll just end up quarreling every single day of your life.
  2. Treat them right. Treat your partner like how you want your partner to treat you. Never ever treat your partner the same as how you treat your friends. You might be nice and all to your friends but yes, treat your partner even better. It's not really about bros over hoes kind of logic. Friends are important but I believe your partner is more important than anyone else.
  3. Never take for granted. Never ever take your partner for granted. If your partner is really nice to you, that is cause he or she loves you and wants the best for you. Learn to appreciate the little things that they do for you. Never make use of their love to gain anything from it cause you'll end up breaking their heart instead.
  4. Right attitude. You might be troubled or pissed about something but that does not mean you have to rights to show attitude to your partners. If they ask you what happened and all, tell them your troubles. Your partners are the ones whom can you can share your problems with sometimes. And they willingly give you a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on. Appreciate their initiative. I personally am facing problems with showing the right attitude to my boyfriend too and I'm trying my best to change now. 
  5. Display your love. What I mean by displaying your love is not only when both of you are alone but when your friends are around you. Your partner will definitely feel good and loved if you go around telling your friends about him or her. Share your happiness with your friends cause your close friends would definitely be happy for you. Never ever release your partner's hand when you see your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend. This will only tell your partner that you have yet to forget about the past. Love your partner like how they love you. 

So couples out there, treasure your loved ones before they decide to leave you. Sometimes, things which are gone will never come back to you. Cherish them now before it's too late. Love like you never loved before. Don't live in a life of regret. Do what you should now to improve your relationship with your partner before it's too late. If you're reading this, tell your partner how much they mean to you and how much you need them in your life. A healthy relationship is what everyone is looking for so hold on there cause behind every cloud is a silver lining. All the best to you couples! xoxo

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